I heard about this long ago in a psychology workshop that we had in the school where I used to teach. It is about being forced out of the comfort zone, the cocoon.... The eagle mother builds her nest with two layers- one, the soft downy upper layer so that the nestlings are comfortable and snug in the early days and the bottom a layer of thorns and all things sharp. When it is time for the babies to fly and they dither and refuse, the mamma , just pecks away the soft layer so that the nestlings are poked sharply with the thorns and are forced to fly....Animal kingdom is strange , the male cubs are always the first ones to be ousted by the mother tiger, and in a matriarch driven elephant herd it's more or less the same story !
So am I the eagle mother? I can never tell. I see my friends kids move out and away and hear them talk of the empty nest syndrome ...and I refuse to think about it - my Scarlett O Hara attitude at it's best! Till then one of my favorites.....from the few rock groups that I like !
Heidi lived in Alps with her Alms uncle - I read this story in a book that was called The Big Big Story Book and it had a compilation of amazing stories that were my first foray into the world of English story books. Recently on a long flight I watched the movie much to delight of the young steward who was our attendant that night. My first glimpse of the Alps was from our flight ...the dawn breaking to spread the orange hues over the snowy terrain...looked mesmerizing even to someone who is not too fond of the mountains. Switzerland was beautiful, with its manicured terrain and flowers like pretty maids all in a row, picture perfect setting and breathtaking, like a touch me not porcelain beauty. Coming from my "elo melo" city I wondered how people managed to keep a country so organized , I have trouble keeping my room in ship shape...... No, I would not like to live there ......it's too distant and too cold ,but what I will carry in my heart is the awesome time .......
Ki Apurbo likhish re..!!!
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